In the struggle for fulfilling a life oriented misjudged desire; human beings try to convince others their concerns to make all their dreams come true in the mistaken way without knowing at the beginning. And the fact hidden behind for reasons is that human beings don’t want things they ‘need’, they want things they ‘want’. And they don’t realize the difference until they are broken in to pieces. And that’s the time we regret for reasons all their mistakes.
Why do we regret? It comes following a ‘Misuse’ of the mind. This means we regret after when we do something insensitive. But why do we do such a thing? When talking about the reasons in this instance, there are many logical answers a one can claim. But all the answers will have one philosophic similarity in that. And that is “misunderstanding the self-feelings and misunderstanding the others-feeling”. In specific, “Behind every regret, there is a misunderstanding”. Then why the misunderstanding comes here when we have the power of thinking critically on things and alternatively on things? It’s because we know lot more than we should actually know. So we don’t want to know more than that, which causes misunderstanding between fantasy and reality even.
When talking about ‘misuse of mind’, ‘insensitivity’ and ‘misunderstanding’, does these comes step by step in the creation of a regret? No! These three things happen at the same time when we try land on moon while trying to take off from a garbage ship. These happen when we have a wrong intention in the wrong place at the wrong time. When we realize that, we start regretting about the intention, place and time.
Some wish that they could go back into time and change the place and time, and some wish that they could change the intention to alter the impact on the mind after the misuse of the mind. But none of these wishes will come true. Because regrets will be regrets and regrets forever. The best thing we can do is to alter our intentions if it’s going to cause regrets. And this wish also will not come true. First reason is that we know lot more than we should know, and the second reason is that we don’t know anything until we get out of a massive misunderstanding, which causes regrets. In both cases regret comes. So where is the positive way out of this illusion?
The positive way out is to use our mind to think about and understand our self-feeling and others-feeling and be aware of the time and the intention. It is to be sensitive and brave not to make a mistake to regret afterwards. It is to be clean and clear about thoughts. In specific, “The only way to avoid regrets is to be understanding”. Because regrets are regrets and will be regrets forever . . . and ever!
“Regrets Can Alter People, But a People Can’t Alter Regrets”
